Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Smart Ass Masochist: yep that's me!

Alright kiddies, it's time for a BDSM vocabulary lesson!
SAM:
adjective, verb, or noun
An acronym utilized for the the term  Smart Ass Masochist.
The SAM is a masochistic person who, either consciously or subconsciously, strives to make people mad at them so that they will be punished. SAMmy behavior is typically demonstrated by extremely bratty and or naughty deeds, however, repetition of seemingly playful infractions and teasing can elevate to intolerable levels (which after all is the SAM's ultimate goal).

According to Laura Goodwin, a BDSM enthusiast and fellow writer, SAMmy behavior is not to be encouraged. In fact, her site prescribes a step by step method in order to break one's submissive little smart ass of their "bad habits". Her explanation and diagnosis of these bratty subs is detailed and very informative and i highly recommend it as required reading for all Doms!

On the other hand, us lil' SAMs like our ways just fine! So here is a list of advice for fellow SAMs (naughty ideas attributed to naughtyemma). You're gonna wanna grab pen and paper for this list!

SAMmy Suggestions: 
  • Sing 'Happy Birthday To Me' and blow out the candle during wax play.
  • Draw a picture of an open hand on your ass. Then draw a red circle around it. Finish up by putting a slash through the circle. (should turn out to be the international no-spanking zone sign)
  • In the middle of an intense cropping, close your eyes and start to snore.
  • During a scene, do a Howard Cosell impression and provide a play-by-play account of what is being done to you.
  • If your dom/me tells you to 'Look me in the eyes', do it cross-eyed.
  • If your dom/me decides to do a verbal humiliation scene with you in public, stick your fingers in your ears and say 'Neener, neener, neener, I can't hear you!'
  • Decorate your dom/me's leathers with oil painted neon polka dots and stripes
  • Place a whoopee cushion on your dom/me's favorite chair.
  • Use the toybag for dirty laundry. Forget to switch the contents back before the next play party.
  • Stick an Alka-Seltzer tablet in your mouth at the beginning of a scene. Work up some saliva to get it fizzy, then call out your safeword.
  • When getting flogged, start singing 'This is the song that never ends...'
  • Become a sarcastic practical joker
  • Learn a language your dom/me doesn't know and then speak only in that language when you are together.
  • Become prone to incessant giggling.
  • If you're trussed up and ordered to count, inform your top you can't do it unless you can use your fingers and toes.
  • Have a wig made up matching your hair color and style perfectly. It'll be worth the expense to see the look on your dom/me's face the next time your hair gets tugged and it comes off..
  • Hold up a scorecard after each blow delivered (like in figure skating or diving)
  • When your top hints at foot worship, hand him/her a package of OdorEaters.
  • If you take a message for your top, write it on a post-it and stick it to your rear.
  • Tell your dom/me a better way to do whatever it is being done to you at that moment.
  • Learn the following phrases:
    • Get off your lazy ass and do it yourself!
    • What do I look like, your maid?
    • This isn't a restaurant.
    • In your dreams!
    • Who died and left you boss?
    • I don't think so!
    • Homey don't play that game.
    • Yeah, right!
  • Only speak in movie quotes.
  • Give your dom/me a massage while wearing a joy buzzer.
  • Send your dom/me an invoice for your services.
  • After a particularly hard blow, pretend to pass out. When your dom/me checks to see if you're OK, jump up and yell 'Gotcha!'
  • Go in the toybag and superglue the nipple clamps shut.
  • Ignore your top until he/she utters the magic word.
  • Starch the floggers.
  • Whine.
  • Attach clappers to all the outlets in the dungeon just before a paddling. (Clap on, clap off...)
Totally EPIC no?!
*school bell rings* Recess everyone! 
Don't forget to do your homework! *evil grin* >;p





Wednesday, June 22, 2011

OMG The Real Thing is SO Much Better!

Hello All!
Great Scott it's been a LONG time since i've updated!
Sorry...once school ended and the whole FetLife thing got started i guess i really haven't been in the writing mood. If truth be told, living the BDSM lifestyle has kinda made FanFiction lose a bit of its luster...I do plan on continuing to write...eventually, but right now i'm exploring instead of simply fantasizing. So bear with me if you'd like to read more of my work...'cause right now i'm at a bit of a standstill. An unmotivated, uninspired, i'd rather be getting spanked right now standstill lol. Sooooo....no updates until i get my muse back...sorry guys!

But i do have some amusement for you!
Check out this preview!

Intriguing, no? lol
Okay, loves, PM me anytime and remember to behave lol!
Although, being naughty is SO much more fun!
Kiss kiss

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

FetLife: 'cause Vanilla just ain't gonna cut it

Hello all!
Oh my GAWD it has been too long; too  long since story updates and far too long since the last Blog update! Once again I must place a majority of the blame on school. I am taking far too many classes this semester and  accordingly have very little free time. However, another contributing factor to my absence is my discovery of the website: FetLife.



FetLife is a "free social network for the BDSM and Fetish Community". It is kinda like Facebook: you can accept and reject Friends, post items on your Wall, send Private Messages, and have a Profile Page complete with optional Bio., and lists of your Kinks/kinks that you are curious about. FetLife allows you to meet like-minded people living in your area and even around the world. FetLife is a great place to network, chat, and discover more about the community as well as to learn a bit more about yourself. And best of all lol, is this site is VERY private! People cannot google you, and people will only know who you really are if you tell them! Additionally, if you decide to leave FetLife for any reason you can opt to have your account completely deleted!

I joined FetLife a little over a month ago, and I must say that I haven't regretted one moment of it! Not only have I learned more about myself, but I have met many similarly minded people, my Daddy Dom included. I am now in a DD/lg (Daddy Dom/ little girl) relationship and I couldn't be happier!

Helpful Links:
What the hell is BDSM?
Do You Have an Inclination for BDSM Quiz?
What does Dominance and submission pertain to?
What is a Daddy Dom/ little girl relationship?
How can I learn more about this community/lifestyle? Join FetLife!

One Final Note:
If you have any questions for me feel free to contact me by Email or PM, I'd be more than happy to give whatever advice I can.
-icul8er